Relationships & Disability

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Our friends in Capernaum are relational by creation. God has knit them together with a longing to know and to be known, no different than everyone else that surrounds them. How to navigate these longings can be tricky, just as it can be for traditional high school kids, but seems to take a good bit of navigation with our friends so as to not experience heart ache every time they develop a friendship at club or camp.

As leaders, we can continually offer our friends a healthy understanding of relationships. Whether it’s thru simple gestures like reminding them of side hugs and high five’s, or verbal reminders that someone may or may not actually be their girl/boyfriend. We can also dig deeply with them
by looking at the person who best modeled for us what relationships can really look like.

Consider this series on relationships, exploring friendships, family relationships, peer relationships, dating relationships and marriage, with your friends. You could use this in club talks or in campaigners.

You can find this series in two different locations, both here on the blog or on Staff Resources.

You will offer your friends a stunning gift by your willingness to have conversations with them about a topic that matters this greatly. Let’s help our friends grow towards healthy relationships with all of those around them!

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